The Extent of my girl troubles

[Chucky!]

I'm not sure where to post this so i'm going to post it here.

I have a female friend (me being very shy, so this is rare for me) who i talk to quite a bit and is one of my best friends. The problem i have is a have a 'crush' on them, i have a slight feeling she has a 'crush' on me, but i doubt it. I would ask her out but, i'm afraid that if she says "no", we won't talk again and i will lose a good friend.

Any suggestions?
(constructive criticism please, i'm only a kid (15))

[Arthur "Ryogo" Warzick]

I tell ya what. go at it. with confidence. if she says no- too bad. but you'll never know if you don't try.

or start coming on to her, longer hugs ftw!!!

[Vinay]

Who needs friends when you can have sex!

[Arthur "Ryogo" Warzick]

^

[Mary Christ]

<3 I am so very fond of you right now.

[Zack(ary)]

You nailed it!

/Zack(ary)

[SeekerScorpio]

Sex isn't everything.... :/

I personally rather have someone to have my back then to be on .... their back. :X

[vic]

You're a big vagina. :\

[SeekerScorpio]

How the hell am I a big vagina?! :S

[Maxim Ustinin]

HAHAHAHA

thats the meanest thing I've heard in a long time.

[Michiel Tijs]

In my opinion first of all it depends on the girl. Second how good you are friends. Third is how much you like her.

1 - I am deducing, from the fact that you say you're shy, that she’s a reasonable regular girl (depends on everyone’s definition of regular of course). If you ask her out what type of reaction will you most probably receive? I doubt she'll freak out or anything.

2 - If you're proper friends you wont necessarily "lose a good friend". If you can talk with her, nice and mushy, there’s always a way to resolve it. Besides (In my opinion) Most girls can still chill with someone whom they know has a crush on them. (This refers back to point 1 a little)

3 - This is the hard one, you need to really weigh out whether or not you think its worth the risk. You need to think about the possibility of you and her getting together and what would happen if it isn’t mutual between you two. If you eventually decide whether to take the risk or not you'll have to make peace with it.

Important:
* If you don’t and you really like her you'll be stuck with the 'what if I had' feeling.
* If you do decide to ask her out you could simply decide to ask if she wants to go to 'that/that' movie with you and then work from there. (never lie, if she asks if it'll be a date say yes)

Hope this helped. Good luck!

[The Dutch Nick]

Friendship with advantages.

[Jaeger]

"be who u are and say wat u feel
because those who mind dont matter
and those who matter dont mind "

this was a quote on my friends youtube page, and its true. I tried dating my best friend around when I was 16 and she said no, it was awkward for about a week or 2, then it was fine, and i learned that all i cared about was being around her and socializing with her, im not you so it may go differently, but just know this, if she is truely your friend, you have nothing to worry about with trying to date her. give us updates plox