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Does not work with me. It tells me this:
NewsShare was developed by a third party.
And a bunch of errors about some JavaScript events.
Is it a remake or something?
Story matters here? WTF :P
Gotta check that out!
"How I can help other people, while I am helping myself."
How many different places would you think you will see? I mean, don't you think that travelling around the world on tour performing is something more than just hard work? I mean really, really hard work? It's not like you have a round trip around ...
De Ting is! . . . *lol*
Nice to see that the Crew is just people too
Would you say that having done peacocking and other PUA techniques helped you to build strong self-confidence and develop high value? Like, would you recommend trying out as an intermediate stage? Sort of "Fake it before you make it"?
I found tha...
You're never not "In The Moment", neither are you a computer programmer. You just think you are all these labels and you've conditioned yourself to believe this. This post proves that you are still struggling to DO something to be "in the moment",...
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- Country/State: (eg. Belgium, Florida,...)
- Germany
- City/Town: (eg. Antwerp, San Francisco,...)
- Boeblingen
- About Me:
- I am a secret invention of the Soviet military. An information capturing device that can operate in upside down. underwater, in vacuum, and consumes no power at all.
- Favorite music:
- N/A
- Favorite movies:
- * The art of negative thinking
* Gandhi
* Annonyma
* Monsters, Inc.
* Fight club
- Favorite books:
- * Lord of the rings
* Games people play
* Gandhi
The following books had impact on my life:
* «GTD», by David Allen
* «Feeling Good», by David D. Burns
* «Helpless Helpers», by Wolfgang Schmidbauer
Of course the trick is not just to merely read this books, rather to actually do, at least something of what they recommend. The first principle of I-Power as understood by the community comes in here: Allways test, if it works for you!
- Goals/Projects/Aspirations:
- * Never, ever and under no circumstances talk behind someone's back
* Study, get an academic degree
* Move to another city
* Become more self-confident
** Subgoal: Maintain a meaningful relationship with a women
- Relationship Status:
- Single
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Fear to confront the reality
Hi people! This blog continues my tradition of documenting my attempts for tackling my biggest self-development pursuit: socialisation. Today I just had a realisation many of you probably have already had months or even years ago.
If we think about problems with socialisation there are two problems to keep in mind: First it is lack of skill, and second is fear. If you do not have the skill, you'll fail naturally, just as with everything else. However generally there is some fear involved, espec… Continue
If we think about problems with socialisation there are two problems to keep in mind: First it is lack of skill, and second is fear. If you do not have the skill, you'll fail naturally, just as with everything else. However generally there is some fear involved, espec… Continue
Posted on November 7, 2009 at 1:00am — 3 Comments
Socialisation causes headache
When I have to (or want to :P) socialise, more often then not for me it means stress. Not always, but when I pull myself out of comfort zone, it usually does mean exactly that: a huge amount of stress. Psychological stress manifests itself in physical symptoms such as headache. So if I approach random people I feel this nervousness and the usual somatic appearances like shaking hands and burning in the chest, adrenalin rush. That would be all fine for one approach, but if I do several in a row,… Continue
Posted on October 27, 2009 at 11:26pm — 1 Comment
Asking for directions on the streets
I continue to document my self-development pursuits with a strong emphasis on socialisation. Yesterday I went out on the streets again and asked random girls for directions. It were not many that i asked but the most responded well and . . . well tried to explain the how to get to a certain place. ;)
The one girl that I wanted to approach did not want to talk to me, she gesticulated in a rejecting manner with her hands and walked by. The behaviour is kind of understandable though, because the c… Continue
The one girl that I wanted to approach did not want to talk to me, she gesticulated in a rejecting manner with her hands and walked by. The behaviour is kind of understandable though, because the c… Continue
Posted on October 23, 2009 at 4:30pm —
Saying "Hi" on the streets
Hi guys this is my first blog. I'm not sure how it will come out, but I'll try and document my self-development process. I did something already. I take contrast showers and I exercise every morning. This is all good and well, but there is an area, which I feel that I basically desperately suck. Of course, it's socialisation. I feel like I cannot have a proper small-talk at all. And this feels pretty miserable.
There is a theme of I-Power -- "conditioned happiness" -- in the sense that one crea… Continue
There is a theme of I-Power -- "conditioned happiness" -- in the sense that one crea… Continue
Posted on October 21, 2009 at 1:00am — 3 Comments
Comment Wall (22 comments)
- At 7:48pm on October 27, 2009,
Zequr said… - I will remember that if you say you're thirsty then ^^
- At 12:56pm on October 9, 2009,
Zequr said…
- Some issues I have. Don't really want to talk about it. No, I don't have skype
- At 10:45pm on October 8, 2009,
Zequr said…
- I haven't been with a friend for two weeks, and that's usual for me, and I don't work or go to school, so if I can understand it, you should then. But I don't think it's about being social or not, we probably just think differently
- At 5:29pm on October 8, 2009,
Zequr said…
- I pick explanation number one. You say it just to be social, to get attention. To see if the other person have anything to comment or say about it, or make them understand you. Telling someone you're tired can make the other person understand if you drag your feet.
Asking for water and saying you want water isn't the same thing.
- At 9:00pm on October 7, 2009,
Zequr said…
- Of course I would listen! I just don't want anyone to solve it for me without asking for my consent first. Like, the massage. They are very welcome to ask me if i want a massage, but I would not want them to just take my problem in their own hands and and start to yank my shoes. It's just the same with water. Even if they don't force you do drink the water, it's quite annoying to get a glass stuffed up in your face :P
- At 6:59pm on October 7, 2009,
Zequr said…
- Are you sure you don't actually expect them to ask you if you want water, rather than go get it for you without asking? If you say your foot hurt, do you expect them to start massage it without question?
- At 2:05am on October 5, 2009,
Zequr said…
- That I agree hehehe
- At 7:06pm on October 4, 2009,
Zequr said…
- Great comment to the odd guideline there!
- At 7:09pm on October 1, 2009,
Adela said… - youuu are wlecomee :)
- At 11:24pm on August 21, 2009,
vic said… - Esquire used to be a way to show high social class in England, but now people can just steal it. Lawyers in the USA stole it and use it to show they studied Law as well. :P
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a place for all people who think that McDonalds is the source of all problems!!!
ok maybe not that bad but they are pretty fucking terrible
hey, hey. I was singing too.
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AJH Dessert Ventrilo Date I at Ventrilo
December 11, 2009 from 7pm to 10pm
BE THERE IN VENTRILO
7PM to 10 PM GMT.
Listen to Joey wow you with his splendor, and ooh and ahh at him singing. See Andrew , uh, do nothing! See DR-ROCKSO, or listen to him, sing as backup! Watch as we discuss interesting personal habits of Sad...
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